You must have read many inspirational books so far, however, I suggest you to read this book ‘You can change your life anytime you want’ by Robin Sieger. This book influences those persons, who want to change their career, who are stuck somewhere in life.
Robin Sieger emphasizes on three things to be happy in life. Do what you love, never give up your dreams and Believe in yourself. Many people say that my passion is this but I am doing that instead. Answer is an endless list of excuses. However, you can change your life any day you want only if you change the way you think.
Why only few people achieve success in their life because they are limited by their assumptions. Assumptions for themselves, assumptions for other people and assumption for their potential.
Do you want the next 10 years of your life be exactly same as the last 10 years?
If your answer is NO then change the way you think. Only after that, you can change the way, you live. All that a man achieves or fails is the direct result of his thoughts. The pattern of thoughts is responsible for how you feel about yourself and where you are in your life.
There are some people who are always late. They usually say “I can’t help it”, “It’s not my fault”, “I come from a family of bad time-keepers”.
Actually, they are late because they think late.
You have two choices either take control of your life and in the process, create right kind of thinking and apply the power OR Do nothing and spend next 10 years as the past 10 and blame yourself of being unlucky, destined to be poor, late, unhappy …
Do not wait. Time will never be just right. Start where you stand and work with whatever tools you have because better tools will be found as you go along.
Your life is not pre-determined or pre-fabricated. You are its architect, its builder.
You apply actions. Don’t get into blames wherein you can see your misfortune. There are many jerks and mean-spirited individuals who will delight in your hard-time. But no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Someone is saying, it’s his opinion, it’s not a scientific fact. Important is what you believe. Because your belief will directly impact on your thought process.
Root cause of being unhappy is ‘Comfortable Familiarity.’ One should get out of his/her comfort zone. Never focus on ‘You can’t do’. Rather focus on ‘What you can do’ and in the process, learn the things which you can’t do.
Make a curious effort to get what you want to achieve and give your full attention to the present. In the process, you will take the right direction and shape the future you want.
Time also decides what you want to do and whether you are happy As in Childhood, you behave like a wolf. If there is a Child, For every activity, he wants to do NOW. And the current state to be happy YES. But slowly and gradually, when year’s pass-by, a person becomes Young and married, he gathers more information. Information of being fearful, being more observant, and failure or being ridicule or being bullied… Now, his answers to do any activity will be LATER when time will be right. And asking for current state of being happy, his answer will be NO.
If you want to be happy, concentrate on your strengths, never bring weaknesses to ride your thought process.
We first make our habits and then our habits make us. Good habits are formed and Bad habits, we fall into. Past experience in our sub-conscious mind also becomes habit. If you notice any friend, who is always late in your get-togethers, he will apologetically say because of work. In the office, he is noted for his punctuality. So, there is nothing called punctuality, its only act of priority.
Who do you think you are? What you believe to be true about yourself?
Answer to this question will influence how you see yourself. What you perceive about others and interpret events. What you believe to be true becomes your reality. If you believe you are a failure, your mind will do all to interpret events in a way to support your thoughts.
To Change your life you need to be pro-active, you should start taking responsibilities, start taking actions and make things happen.
If you do something, something happens. It may or may not be what you wanted but change will begin to occur. And output will either bring you closer to your desired goal or further away from the desired goal. BUT if you do nothing, for sure, one thing will happen and of which, you will have no control. You will interpret it as fate, bad luck or to add another event that nothing good ever happens to you.
An Example of a Salesman, when you visit a Shop
He sounds un-interested and stop-bothering attitude. He is behaving rude, distant and un-interested because he chose to do so. And no-one made him to react to the situation, he did. He chose to make this experience boring, pointless and forgettable.
INSTEAD, he could take it as an opportunity, a great unforgettable moment.
If we are not doing our best, if heart & soul is missing in our efforts in our actions then we are not putting enough efforts. As Mohammed Ali says, “If I would be a street sweeper then I would be the best street sweeper in the world”.
I want to be rich, happy & successful
Asking for something… Long time, asking for something and you are putting a thing again and again in your to-do list MEANS either we are not entitled for it, we don’t deserve it OR we are not determined to achieve it. Every day, take a moment to review if you are on a right track. If you have the plan, what you are waiting for… the 1st step. Never faultier, don’t hesitate. As you have taken 1st step means you have started the process to change.
You must challenge the beliefs which hold you back. If you don’t challenge them, they will stay with you to shape your destiny and your future will be just the repetition of the past.
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